A niece of mine was almost killed by a hospital. She had a horrendously high fever but they just did nothing (‘observation’ my ass) until she had to be air lifted to a better hospital. Basically everyone I’ve ever met knows someone who has died or almost died there, even a drifter who was only staying in town a few months had a story. It’s not just the insurance industry, although that needs to die too.

I live in the US. All my healthcare experiences are ‘American healthcare’ experiences.

I was basically raised to just avoid ever going, because it’s just not affordable.

I had been getting the same medicine at the same pharmacy for quite some time, always costing something like $4. I go to the pharmacy to pick it up one time, and it’s $40. I need the medicine so I pay it (I can luckily afford it), but I call the insurance company to see what’s up. They tell me the manufacturer raised the price, there’s nothing they can do. I ask why I wasn’t informed that my medicine would be 10x the price, they say that “there isn’t a system in place to do that.” I ask what I am supposed to do, and they say, “there’s other manufacturers for this medicine that are cheaper.” I ask what pharmacy has those manufacturers, and they say they don’t know. So I have to call the pharmacys, get the manufacturer’s names, then call the insurance back and ask them the cost.

Also, I had the thing where the doctor was “in network” but the lab (right down the hall) was not, so I got an unexpected bill. I spent hours on the phone arguing, and they finally took the charge off.

My experiences have been infuriating, inconvenient, and frustrating, but not life-threatening luckily.

My family member spent about half a day in the emergency room and died. No insurance for various reasons. We got a bill for $86,000.

I wish this was made up.

Was just in the ER for the past 2 days, actually.

My 9-year-old very suddenly had a lump in his abdomen, with mild pain. We waited for 4 hours to see a doctor, and by the time he did make it in, the lump was gone. We’re presuming it was a mild hernia, and we’ll be following up with a pediatric surgeon.

Now, I’ll mirror the sentiment from a few comments here that everyone we interacted with was great. Every member of the staff was friendly, accommodating, and professional. The staff was very forthcoming about what was going on, the hospital’s only pediatrician at the time had been pulled into an emergency C-section procedure upstairs. Very understandable. One staff member even went and tracked me down a portable phone battery somewhere, when I asked for a charger.

Point being here is that even when the industry is FULL of top-notch professionals doing all the important work, there’s still a big problem in the system. This particular hospital is HUGE, it services hundreds of square miles. Why is there only one pediatrician on staff at-a-time, in the whole place?

I have UHC insurance and am prescribed fluoxetine (Prozac). Prescriptions that you take for longer than three refills must be ordered through their mail order pharmacy, OptumRX. Seems like they always take about a week to process and mail out the prescription, and then I’m waiting on USPS who take their time to get it to my mailbox.

All that mess instead of my doctor just sending my prescription to the pharmacy that is literally across the street from my apartment, where I could get it filled the same day. Been thinking about just starting to pay for it out of pocket so I can use my own pharmacist.

I have many, but the one I’m willing to share:

So I have a dead tooth that is broken at the root, so it requires major invasive surgery to be removed. Well, insurance will only cover localized anesthesia. Local anesthesia doesn’t work on me; I can still feel it. Not to mention that they are going to have to go deep to get the root. So I have been living with this for years.

A couple years ago it got infected. I went to the local hospital — Forbes Medical Center in Monroeville, PA. I walked in the emergency room, delirious from fever and pain, and checked in. I sat there for HOURS. Then, the abscess ruptured. I run up to the desk, trying to get help, or at least a fucking barf bag or something because I now have a mouth full of puss and infection. Well, the useless bitch at the desk did literally nothing; just went back to fucking around on her phone. So I went in the bathroom, spit it all out in the sink without washing any of it away so they can fucking deal with it, and walked the fuck out. I was stopped by the security guard at the entrance asking me if I was ok. The goddamn rent-a-cop gave more of a shit about my wellbeing than that fucking shithole of a “hospital”. I will bleed out and die in the gutter before I ever go back to that fucking place.

I had to spend the weekend in the hospital. At somepoint I woke up and there was a lady asking me about my insurance. I didn’t have any. She asked me what insurance would I like? I was pretty out of it, and just said “whichever one you would want to have”.

Best thing that’s happened to me. That nice lady looked out for me and got me really good insurance for free. No copays or anything. Every thing is free for me. Tests, medication, extra things, cabs, eye dental everything. I have yet to find anything it doesn’t cover. And im at various dr appointments every week.

I was really lucky she was there for me.

ruptured a disc in my back so bad my legs gave out and i couldn’t walk properly. When i made it into an ER a day later they gave me pain meds (which i didn’t want or ask for i wanted diagnostics) and then turned me away and wouldn’t help me.

I went to the urgent care clinic next door but when they found out i was on state healthcare they said they couldn’t treat me even if i paid.

I bought a bunch of beer to numb the pain and spent the next few months in bed until i could walk again.

every time the subject of back pain came up they got incredibly stupid and just wouldn’t even look. i did get an xray that didn’t show much so they all assumed i was lying.

Is been 5 years and i still can’t ride a bicycle for more than 5 minutes or lift very much or i’m in bed the next day. can’t sit without lumbar support for more than 30 minutes.

I can walk though so i’m grateful i have mobility! I am going to physical therapy finally in a couple weeks but still haven’t gotten an mri.

I needed an MRI and blood work. It was covered.

My point is one problem this movement faces is that folks have been treated wildly differently by the system. And if they aren’t as attached to the same online communities, they don’t see near as much discussion on the topic, and therefore normally don’t think of it as much.

One of the medications I take (treatment for an exotic form of seizure) is a Schedule 2 drug, and thus requires a full prescription to be issued monthly. Said prescription can only be written at most two days before the prescription is due to run out, because fuck you you filthy little addict. As a result I have never, not once, been able to get these prescriptions approved by my insurance before I start having withdrawals from the meds.

So, yeah. Monthly withdrawals because a $30 generic medication that I’ve taken for years absolutely must be carefully evaluated to make sure I’m not selling it under the table to professional golfers or something.

My wife broke her ankle, spent the night in the hospital hooked up to IV pain meds, and had surgery the next day.

Insurance said that the overnight stay was medically unnecessary, as the car could have been provided in a more appropriate setting. They only approved overnight stays in instances where the patient’s pain needed constant management or they were having surgery. Bonus points: there was a footnote on the denial papers saying that the person who denied the coverage had a medical background…in OBGYN. Not orthopedics.

Spent literally months appealing that before they begrudgingly agreed that it was covered, which makes us the lucky ones in the US Healthcare system.

Family had big surgery, had excellent insurance, went to rehab, something went wrong and his bones started coming apart and he reported agonizing pain and popping sounds in his reconstructed bones, and they ignored him and told him it was normal. By the time they realized it was a real issue, his whole anatomy was falling apart and he had to have multiple surgeries all the way across the state to fix it, traveling back and forth while not in great shape, and still isn’t okay and probably will not be again. I got in a shouting match with one of the nurses that tried to tell me it was basically his fault.

Other family member had major abdominal surgery, they sent her home after and only after she collapsed at home and came back did they realize that nothing they’d done the first time had actually addressed what was causing the problem. They did surgery again, this time fixing the actual issue, and then sent her to rehab for a few days and then back home before she could walk again. If I or someone hadn’t been around to help her out she probably would have starved to death or something.

Friend had a fairly minor health condition, had insurance, went to the doctor, insurance refused to pay the claim for basically no reason, wound up with bill collectors chasing her for thousands of dollars after she had paid out-of-pocket to have health insurance. Lawyer said there’s not much to do that wouldn’t cost more than they wanted to extract from her. Sorry.

I went to the doctor evading the whole system, just said that I had something wrong with me and wanted it checked by a specialist without waiting six months for a referral and wanted to pay for the visit. They said fine and quoted a price, I said fine. A lab sent me a separate bill for the lab work which the office hadn’t told me about, I called the office to ask about it, they said lol good luck.

There really is no way out, other than not to have health issues.

I take a medicine which typically costs $600 per month. If I don’t take it, I won’t feel any different, but I could suddenly die (expected rate of one incident per 6 years).

For some reason, my insurance, which is really terrible most of the time, is covering it at $0 per month, despite not having even met my deductible this year. If this changes on January 1st due to plan changes (or changes at any other time, for whatever reason) then I’ll probably just be screwed.

So I just have to live with this uncertainty.

(What do people do when they have a $10,000 deductible and have to take this med?)

The meds I need in order to do anything cost $250/month but other than that I have fortunately avoided hospitals.

Wait no, I got the flu real bad and had to go to the ER. Cost me over 2k and all I got was a tylenol and a 8hr wait