UPDATE: ADMIN STATEMENT IN COMMENTS

Leadership of Lemmy has dug in their heels and shown that they will be slow to remove overt homophobia, sexism, and transphobia on this platform. Administration will spend hours or days of effort defending these people to justify a ban that would be instant on other platforms.

You are not safe here. I recommend migrating to either Lemmygrad.ml or Hexbear.net (Hexbear being much less sectarian but the people on Lemmygrad are very cool 😎). Please take care out there. Fuck the patriarchy! Trans rights are human rights! ✊

Receipts:

https://lemmy.ml/post/470384/comment/276139

https://lemmy.ml/post/89596/comment/92129

https://lemmy.ml/post/470384/comment/275398

  • Pax@lemmy.ml
    32·
    2 years ago

    I don’t live on Lemmy, and if I did and were concerned about problematic stuff I’d never recommend Lemmygrad, you ask one genuine question and people act like you’re Satan.

    Lemmy’s not a huge site to my knowledge… if it’s that bad people can either leave, make their own site, or apply to be an admin/moderator.

      • Pax@lemmy.ml
        12·
        2 years ago

        … I’m not reading every comment. My life doesn’t revolve around Lemmy.

        Also, while we’re at it, you keep pointing out that I can’t see patterns or see the post properly. I have major cognitive issues especially when it comes to long texts, so PLEASE keep shaming me intellectually, lmao. You’re lucky, the mods might not ban you for ableism! /s

        • altair222@beehaw.org
          2·
          2 years ago

          If you do have cognitive issues, then I’m sorry that my comments were hurtful, they weren’t meant to be an attack. All I’m saying is that context is always important and post titles on platforms like reddit and Lemmy dont provide the full picture of everything, hence it becomes a responsibility to make sure to atleast try and see the full picture to the best of our abilities.

          • Pax@lemmy.ml
            3·
            2 years ago

            I’m not necessarily hurt, just mildly annoyed - mostly because on my end, I’ve made it clear that my life doesn’t revolve around Lemmy and even if it did, I’m not sure it’s very common for people to read through an entire comments section or memorize who wrote what comment. So it’s strange that that would even be some kind of argument.

            Context is definitely important, but I feel like my points still stand - if it’s really that bad, people should leave, and they don’t need a post to tell them to leave if it is that bad. If they like Lemmy enough, they can work together on a new site, or apply for admin/moderator positions so that these things are taken care of.

            Maybe it’s just some weird pet peeve. Like… I get to decide if Lemmy’s safe for me or not. I don’t need someone else to tell me just because they had a bad experience (and I don’t want to minimize that, because it is shitty, but again, this stuff sadly is EVERYWHERE).

            I feel like it could’ve been better to say “Hey, it’s been a topic of discussion lately, and the mods are shit. How do we want to proceed?” Instead it just feels self-centered and demanding. I don’t like it. And that totally could be a “me” thing, I can be overly sensitive with tone.

            (And as a bit of an aside, it may not be clear from how I type but I really do have cognitive issues - they’re extra bad today for whatever reason and trying to word things has been a pain whether it seems that way or not. It’s definitely a “processing only a few lines of text at a time” sort of day. No idea what’s making things worse, but I hope it clears up sooner rather than later)

            • altair222@beehaw.org
              2·
              2 years ago

              I completely understand your side now, thanks for clarifying. I agree with some of them and have issues with some other things, but I’m kinda exhausted myself to fully create expositions for my ideas. Also, I do hope you feel better sooner rather than later too, I dont know anything about cognitive issues apart from the ones that come from suffering with DP/DR, but my wishes are that of your well being.

              Hope we both can someday continue this conversation if need be in a way that helps us both. Take care for now!