I haven’t refused to give you evidence. It’s all over the thread, and you refuse to see it. Just because you’re being dishonest by denying other interactions that happened in this thread that everyone else can clearly see, doesn’t make me a liar for pointing them out. Get over your victim complex.
I thought you said you were done with this conversation? Apparently that wasn’t true, but I am.
I’m sorry, can you provide a single example of someone else doing that?
I made a specific request for you to support your claim, which you didn’t do. There are no other accusations in this thread about me attacking them, DARVO or not, for me or anyone else to clearly see - you’re lying, and you’re once again attempting to gaslight me about that fact.
Also I’ve never said I was done with this conversation, I said I welcome you being done with it. You were the one that was apparently wrong, but you’re trying to tell me that was actually me, being incorrect. That’s gaslighting, dude. Again.
You’re explicitly engaging in the behavior you’re accusing me of, and refuse to engage with me when I explain how you’ve misunderstood me, choosing instead to repeatedly attack my character and lie to me instead of engage in good faith. It’s disgusting you’re still trying this.
And you refuse to admit it. I didn’t bother with it earlier because I saw no point in humoring someone like you. Stop acting like everyone on this thread can’t see all the other comments.
Asking for evidence when you’re accused of something incredibly heinous isn’t sealioning, especially when they claim it’s obvious - it’s basic defensiveness. I’m asking them to back up their accusations, and they’ve responded with a list of comments that have nothing to do with their accusations. They’re aggressively gaslighting me, not just about that, and although you were hostile to me initially (and I sincerely do not know why, I appreciated your comment but was genuinely confused by it and if I offended I do apologize) I am begging you to look at what they’re doing.
Stop. That isn’t evidence. None of those are accusing me of attacking someone while engaging in DARVO-like behavior, which is the claim you made. I haven’t really made a claim for them to say is wrong other than that the person in the meme should be more direct with their friend, a claim you have never engaged with. That I have been misinterpreted about the spirituality of tarot is the bulk of my explanations elsewhere - something you again choose to ignore. You’re again blatantly trying to gaslight me.
When confronted with evidence, the perpetrator then attacks the person that they had harmed, or are still harming.
You’re literally doing DARVO while you do this. You have never attempted to engage with me on this, nor my criticism of your behavior in my previous replies here, you’ve simply chosen to attack, attempt to gaslight and accuse me of being the aggressor.
Look at your comments. I accused you of being a jerk and attacking me, and you immediately:
Finally, the perpetrator claims that they were or are actually the victim in the situation, thus reversing the positions of victim and offender.
You started the accusations of narcissim, including inventing that other people were accusing me of attacking them by engaging in DARVO-like behavior then attempting to gaslight me about it. When you weighed in on this conversation it was to mock me for expressing confusion - that was a discussion not an argument, if a rather rude one - in a conversation where I had sincerely asked for someone else’s perspective and was given a perfunctory lack of explanation. Elsewhere in this thread are very minor arguments, sure - all of them based on a misunderstanding, or (after you joined) one person posting a rude meme.
You have refused to engage with what I’ve said from the beginning, and you’ve devolved to even trying to gaslight me about being the one who said they were done with this conversation - which, I note, you continue not to be done with.
I haven’t refused to give you evidence. It’s all over the thread, and you refuse to see it. Just because you’re being dishonest by denying other interactions that happened in this thread that everyone else can clearly see, doesn’t make me a liar for pointing them out. Get over your victim complex.
I thought you said you were done with this conversation? Apparently that wasn’t true, but I am.
I made a specific request for you to support your claim, which you didn’t do. There are no other accusations in this thread about me attacking them, DARVO or not, for me or anyone else to clearly see - you’re lying, and you’re once again attempting to gaslight me about that fact.
Also I’ve never said I was done with this conversation, I said I welcome you being done with it. You were the one that was apparently wrong, but you’re trying to tell me that was actually me, being incorrect. That’s gaslighting, dude. Again.
You’re explicitly engaging in the behavior you’re accusing me of, and refuse to engage with me when I explain how you’ve misunderstood me, choosing instead to repeatedly attack my character and lie to me instead of engage in good faith. It’s disgusting you’re still trying this.
Literally all these other commenters are telling you that you’re wrong
https://sopuli.xyz/comment/21780989
https://sopuli.xyz/comment/21775878
https://sopuli.xyz/comment/21778431
https://sopuli.xyz/comment/21779673
And you refuse to admit it. I didn’t bother with it earlier because I saw no point in humoring someone like you. Stop acting like everyone on this thread can’t see all the other comments.
Sealioning
I learned a new word! Nice.
Asking for evidence when you’re accused of something incredibly heinous isn’t sealioning, especially when they claim it’s obvious - it’s basic defensiveness. I’m asking them to back up their accusations, and they’ve responded with a list of comments that have nothing to do with their accusations. They’re aggressively gaslighting me, not just about that, and although you were hostile to me initially (and I sincerely do not know why, I appreciated your comment but was genuinely confused by it and if I offended I do apologize) I am begging you to look at what they’re doing.
Stop. That isn’t evidence. None of those are accusing me of attacking someone while engaging in DARVO-like behavior, which is the claim you made. I haven’t really made a claim for them to say is wrong other than that the person in the meme should be more direct with their friend, a claim you have never engaged with. That I have been misinterpreted about the spirituality of tarot is the bulk of my explanations elsewhere - something you again choose to ignore. You’re again blatantly trying to gaslight me.
You’re literally doing DARVO while you do this. You have never attempted to engage with me on this, nor my criticism of your behavior in my previous replies here, you’ve simply chosen to attack, attempt to gaslight and accuse me of being the aggressor.
Look at your comments. I accused you of being a jerk and attacking me, and you immediately:
It’s almost beat for beat.
“I’m not doing Darvo, you’re doing Darvo!”
Classic. I’ll just leave it up to the peanut gallery to judge.
And again you ignore that you started this and attempt to turn it around on me.
I started this? The top level comment is yours, and you were already arguing with people who called you out by the time I chimed in…
You started the accusations of narcissim, including inventing that other people were accusing me of attacking them by engaging in DARVO-like behavior then attempting to gaslight me about it. When you weighed in on this conversation it was to mock me for expressing confusion - that was a discussion not an argument, if a rather rude one - in a conversation where I had sincerely asked for someone else’s perspective and was given a perfunctory lack of explanation. Elsewhere in this thread are very minor arguments, sure - all of them based on a misunderstanding, or (after you joined) one person posting a rude meme.
You have refused to engage with what I’ve said from the beginning, and you’ve devolved to even trying to gaslight me about being the one who said they were done with this conversation - which, I note, you continue not to be done with.