I’d say barely anyone does.

These programs should be a lot more common than they are. Instead we have abstinence-only sex ed.

Since the bot is broken I’ll just comment that my community is trending.

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There’s enough of that in the bullshit diagram I posted.

Managing an operation on that scale sounds more expensive than just taking the time to hand-craft a few prototype ruler dildos and maybe try to pitch the product to investors.

It’s so weird. He took the most extreme interpretation of the conclusion of the original reply and just ran off on tangents of tangents. I want to relay banning him to see what other ridiculous shit he says. Nobody said trolls weren’t funny.

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Nobody is saying you can’t a woman to know her own body. That’s a bad faith interpretation is the initial reply to my post. The replies you’ve gotten to your questions have likely been from women who were not educated or experienced enough on sexuality to have the vocabulary to communicate their desires or know what those desires are, or have been socially and/or societally conditioned to basically just take whatever a guy can give because her view on sex is something that “men do to women”. This is a societal issue, not a women “shouldn’t have sex” or “deserve to get hurt” issue. Yes, people lack communication all the time and it’s good that you put your foot down about people who don’t communicate properly, but you’re arguing against a strawman and coming off as a misogynist who generalizes and otherizes women as a monolith.

Also, even your own rhetoric is inconsistent: Is a woman who doesn’t communicate a child who can’t consent to sex, or an adult who knows the risks and deserves whatever injuries she gets as a result?

Even better if she doesn’t cut her nails or has sharp-tipped press-ons.

Risk of UTI and yeast infections are part of the fun?

This begs the question: Why DON’T they make ruler dildos? Think of how useful that would be!

Nobody is saying you need to have your partner’s anatomy completely figured out, nor they it’s your responsibility to know your partner’s limits before any communication has been done. You also can’t expect somebody to know a limit they haven’t tested yet.

The original reply essentially said that if you have a large penis and have had experience with PIV sex, you should have an idea of how your size has impacted your partners, assuming that that information has been communicated to you, because if you ignore that and keep some what you’re doing that has had a history of hurting your partners, you’re just going to keep hurting people and sex with you will not be a good experience for those partners.

I think this person just wants an excuse to rant about women.

Who hurt you? If someone figures out that a person whose dick is too big for their vagina, they’re not gonna seek out dicks that size again, or they’re gonna ask their partner to take it more slowly. What is this situation you’ve made up in your head that no one is talking about? No one is saying that if what you’re doing hurts your partner it’s not your partner’s responsibility to speak up about it. People do that all the time, and if they don’t, there’s all sorts of reasons that they might not feel comfortable doing so. Why do they “deserve” the pain and suffering that comes with it instead of empathy?

More importantly, what is the argument you’re trying to make and what do you think that argument is against?

Pictures are allowed, so if you’d like, you can post a pic so people can get a better picture of what things look like and what your options are.

Damn son, way to do the math. I would’ve never gone that far, thanks!

Damn, that’s pretty inspiring.

Sometimes things feel good in the moment but end up hurting later. Sometimes when I’m too rough she doesn’t know until the next morning when she wakes up with some pelvic pain.

https://lemmy.world/post/46599277

I think if you just go straight into the vaginal canal with no curve you end up either hitting the cervix or just defaulting to the anterior fornix. Have you ever measured your depth when aroused?