Hot take: your gender is irrelevant in 90% of situations
Should be irrelevant even more often.
Fuck gender
Honestly I’d fuck anything at this point. Gender included.
Paige No!
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All my homies hate gender
For who? And what situations?
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Hot take. You’re banned
This is a transphobic trope and you might want to educate yourself on non binary trans people.
Their stance sounds more like gender abolition…
It’s basically “we made up gender roles, and they’re useless and harmful. Let’s just get rid of all of it, and let everyone express themselves however feels right”
It’s the only end goal that makes sense… Adding more labels helps people understand the box they’ve been forced into, but ultimately we just need to move past all of it
Yes, and that’s a trope that’s often used to invalidate the experiences of non binary people. We live in a society where gender does matter a lot and telling someone to stop caring about their own gender because it’s a social construct is transphobic. You can argue all you want about the meaning of gender, just don’t use it to invalidate nb or trans people, which is what the person I replied to was doing.
I don’t think that’s a fair reading of what they said at all
Gender is indeed irrelevant at all times. It doesn’t exist. It’s a set of expectations you impose on another person and have imposed on you… Realizing I don’t have to explain anything to anyone is my personal answer, I just need to stop forcing myself to pretend.
Gender roles exist, but only to people who believe in them. You can break them at any time. You don’t need a category, you can just be you, moment to moment.
I can’t think of a more accepting position for non-binary or genderfluid people… Some people need external validation, but ultimately it’s about how you see yourself
They don’t think it be like it is, but it do, it do.
Other than peeing while standing being easier and my inability to give birth, I’m not sure I can come up with another 9.9% of the time to fill that gap.
i also go nyaaa~~ :3
like you know, Nya~ :3
nyaa mrowrr prrrrbt meow :3
this is why i love (/p) the gay people in my phone
mrow ! :3
Max I just want you to know you make my day
pet pet pet
prrrr >w<
I prefer the Popeye method: “I yam what I yam”
Ummm. He’s the inked sailor into spinach, right? Pretty sure it’s just “a yam, what a yam!”
op here, im bigender and this is how it be
[saw voice] hello bigender op im a cat an i demand pet mrow meow meow mrowr meoww
pet pet
prrrrrr mrow <3
I’m not OP but gives headpats who’s a good kitty pat pat it’s you, you are a good kitty pat pat pat :3
prrrrrbt prrrrrrrrr mrow prrrr <3
Like twice a gender or every other gender?
every other gender 0:
Wow can’t believe gender is countable
Blahaj moment
cishet and still giving you critical support in your struggles against rigid gender role binarism 🫡
I appreciate the sentiment but why critical support though
Because aiming for body shots is for casuals
uhh yes actually regular support and critical i mean, you get both types!
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not complicated, this is just a meme about me being bigender. its really not something i think about as much as youre insinuating but acting like its not valid to find comfort in one’s gender identity and comradery with others (the point of the meme) is kind of silly. this is 196 after all
Stop commenting on topics you clearly know nothing about, especially if it’s about an often discriminated against minority group.
Why are you assuming I don’t know anything about this topic? Also this person is not trans they’re bigender. There’s a distinction and conflating one with the other is offensive. I have friends who are actually trans and this is not the same.
Nowhere in my comment am I referring to OP as trans. I assume you don’t know anything about the topic because you are sharing a trope that is often used to dismiss the experiences of non binary and bigender people. Bigender and non binary trans people do exist btw.
You are a Schrodinger sexual?
i mean i identify as bisexual?? but idk i guess it would be schrodinger’s sexual. im the cat in that box. nyan~
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thats not even a femboy. thats korone, a dog girl vtuber lol
Oh my bad
If you can’t tell the difference, what does it matter?
Skill issue tbh
If you really hate this kind of content this much, you should filter this instance, it’s a you problem
Learn to block communities or GTFO
then quit? nobody’s forcing you to be here
shut up dork
Nobody here sympathizes with you, just filter the instance
Korone is not a femboy
Bye, Felisha.
“Depends on what day it is and which direction the wind is blowing” is how I like to describe my gender
Full on Madhyamika gender
Personally I don’t engage with gender. Gender is only useful in changing peoples perceptions of yourself and I don’t find people “lying” about my identity to my face to be an issue. I would identify as non binary or agender, but to do that would induce cognitive burden on others and make survay data more difficult, so I just don’t. Life is too short to bother educating people you meet about how you understand your own gender.
Who am I, I’m fractal and my pronouns are whatever you are willing to calling me in this moment.
cool beans you do you but some people find comfort in such labels and thats valid just as your viewpoint is valid
Agreed, and I’ve seen cases where its helped people a lot, I’m just not one of those.
I think I’m the same, which I guess is a privileged position to be in
idk I feel its pretty useful in finding others like you? also how do you mean “make survey data more difficult”? like not inconveniencing others is commendable, but this sounds like internalized enby erasure?
also if you’re not represented in survey data, it makes it that much easier for conservative proponents to point at gender surveys and say “well there’s practically no one who doesn’t fall in the binary buckets so there obviously must be something wrong with them and not the system”
as in, being yourself is the goal, but by being publicly open about it, you help others feel confident in pursuing what their authentic self is.
but again, you do you boo and I’m gonna keep being me by confusing all the guys in the gym lockers 🤪
idk I feel its pretty useful in finding others like you?
True but to me my gender is really not a factor in who I am, and while it might be a useful huistic for finding those who are similar to me, I can think of far better ones then that (e.g. hobbies, position on the asexuality spectrum)
Your statement about politicians is something I agree with, I’m more thinking about how identifying as an outlier is less useful then identifying as your birth gender when doing statistical analysis for polls with low sample size which I often participate in, especially when it makes no difference to me.
by being publicly open about it, you help others feel confident …
That’s a good point that I’ll think on
but again, you do you boo and I’m gonna keep being me by confusing all the guys in the gym lockers 🤪
You too, I wish you luck with that.
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Why not
