• Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Almost always the other person zeroes in on and rises to the bait.

    That’s a bad method especially on Lemmy which prides itself on friendliness.

    If I know I’m right, and coming down hard on someone in an argument, I actively avoid acknowledging insults because I see it as a tactic to stall from losing an argument.

    People will start ramping up insults before they lose in order to bait you into arguing about the insults instead of the facts that they are wrong about.

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      1 year ago

      I mean, it can pride itself on friendliness, but it’s not really a friendly place. People are toxic and dismissive, often ignoring any nuance in a discussion.

    • BlanketsWithSmallpox@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      That’s a bad method especially on Lemmy which prides itself on friendliness.

      I’ve seen a minor increase in people willing to reply and bring actual sauce to discussion. I’ve still never seen anyone willing to change their mind despite mountains of evidence to the contrary. Even when you have a username like my which goads people into ad hominems using fake historical earworms lol.