As we all know, Roblox is garbage tier gameplay structured around psychological cues to get children to fill an endless pit with fake money bought with real money.

So I banned my kid from it. He used it a little bit socially with a few friends of his. What online or local multiplayer games should I help him to replace it with? (He’s 10, so please don’t recommend Diablo 4 or anything else that has quite that much gore)

He and his friends have an Xbox Series X|S at home.

Edit: keep your judgemental shit out of here. His whole social group (5 kids he knows from school) got banned on the same day. Me and the other parents are trying to be nice and replace it with better quality games so it isn’t just a punishment.

Edit2: Thanks guys. I got him Lee Carvallo’s Putting Challenge

  • Fizz@lemmy.nz
    52·
    1 year ago

    You could try Dungeons and dragons. It could be fun for his friend group.

    • teawrecks
      34·
      1 year ago

      I wish someone had taught my friends and me how to play D&D when I was 10, but my parents were part of the “satanic panic” generation, and had zero interest in anything to do with fantasy or improv. Once you get out of highschool, finding a night that everyone can meet up for D&D gets exponentially harder, let alone finding someone who wants to put in the time to DM.

      • GreenEnigma@lemmy.world
        11·
        1 year ago

        This!

        My friend group would have thrived from something like that.

        But our parents were always afraid of what we’d get up to in this very non-conceptual way, so instead we stayed close to home. And drank.

        • teawrecks
          3·
          1 year ago

          Let’s be real, D&D is a gateway drug to alcohol. And lots of doritos 🤭.

    • WetBeardHairs@lemmy.mlOP
      10·
      1 year ago

      DnD is fantastic. I was planning to buy some campaign materials for xmas. Might as well get that started!

      • FigMcLargeHuge@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        5·
        1 year ago

        Oh yeah, DnD is a great idea, and if they aren’t into dragons (but who isn’t) there’s all kinds of variations of rpg games. Mutant Year Zero, Vaesen, Alien, Pathfinder, Starfinder, etc. The list goes on and on. And since you have mentioned you have a pc, you can use a virtual tabletop like Fantasy Grounds, for them to play where you don’t have to get them all together in the same room. I play a few different games each week with people I have only met in game. You could buy the FG Ultimate license for one pc, whomever is going to be the DM, and all the other kids could connect with the free beta license, and only the DM needs to own the books. Everyone else can just get on and read the manuals, or play the game with no expense.

        • WetBeardHairs@lemmy.mlOP
          21·
          1 year ago

          Personally I have played dnd with those virtual tabletops and… they’re pretty bad. You spend about 3x as much time fiddling with it than you do playing. Plus you then get distracted by electronics when you should be getting into your character.

          • FigMcLargeHuge@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            4·
            1 year ago

            Well I guess it all depends on the dm and the material. I play a couple of games each week, and one is a 4 hour session and it’s pretty immersive. We have a few hiccups now and again, but it’s not anything that bad in my opinion. There is some work on the dm side, but since we are all spread about the planet, it allows us to get together and run a campaign. Even my local board game peeps use FG to play. We talk about playing local, but when we get together it’s usually to break out some board games we have and want to play, and one person playing our dnd game is a couple of states away. We joke about putting him on an ipad and facetiming him with his head sitting on the table. LOL.

      • retrieval4558@mander.xyz
        4·
        1 year ago

        Dnd (and tabletop gaming in general) is really fun, but I can foresee problems when you try to replace the electronic gambling skinner box of Roblox with a game where the core features are math and imagination.

        • WetBeardHairs@lemmy.mlOP
          3·
          1 year ago

          I’d say the main hangup with any tabletop game is availability. My family is already planning to do dnd sessions at home.

          • WindyRebel@lemmy.world
            2·
            1 year ago

            If you plan to DM:

            For immersiveness, I recommend miniatures to use on a grid (can be just paper with 1”x1” squares drawn with a pencil). One thing I can say for doing it cheap and quick is to buy a bunch of those small game piece holders (1”x1”) and find monster art online to print, cut, and put in the holders as your minis.

            [For example](LLMSIX 24 Pieces Game Card Stand Clear Card Holders Plastic Place Card Display Stand Photo Card Holder DIY Board Games Stand for Business Cards Price Tags Labels Menus Party Favor)

            You can get basic rules online for free and you could probably pick up books used.