I decided I would be willing to date a non-vegan since despite the conveniences and shared ethics of other vegans, it can be hard to find them in general, and maybe I could influence people positively, though probably without any expectation for them to go vegan (but still hoping society will move toward it one day anyway).

But online questions asking people (non-vegans) if they would date a vegan really shocked and surprised me when most of the answers were no, mostly for reasons of inconvenience and a fear of being pulled into veganism. This leaves me feeling like finding other vegans may be my only option after all. Is this somewhat accurate?

  • Melllvar@startrek.websiteEnglish
    34·
    11 months ago

    The OP literally solicited non-vegan responses, and you’re upset that non-vegans responded?

    • Eevoltic@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      92·
      11 months ago

      No, I am upset that non-vegans don’t take five minutes to understand what veganism is before posting

        • ArieTheFloof@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          5·
          11 months ago

          “Dietary Preferences”

          its not a Diet, its more of an ethic’s question, are you ok with eating flesh of those who don’t have a say if they want to be killed for food? or are you gonna stay oblivious to the fact that this is speciesism?

            • Robustic@monyet.ccOPEnglish
              41·
              11 months ago

              Well most non-vegans here did say they wouldn’t date a vegan or would have some problem with it, even in the case where I specifically said I had no problem with dating non-vegans… in those particular situations, it’s the non-vegans that have a problem, not the vegans. And not just in this thread either, those were the prevailing responses in other online question and answer forums that I found as well. So while some vegans definitely refuse to date non-vegans, it’s clear that isn’t always the case, and the opposite is often true as well. Neither are black and white, of course. I wish more non-vegans would be open to dating vegans who were fine with them and had no intention to try to change them, as in my case, but I understand the apprehension, and concerns about convenience, and of course it’s their choice whether to date someone or not.

              • Melllvar@startrek.websiteEnglish
                13·
                11 months ago

                I’d respond but your moderators will just delete it. Instead I’ll just block this community and let you wallow in your self pity.