Was having this conversation with some new friends earlier and was curious. When did you guys figure out your sexuality/identity or whatever? Was there a person that helped you or a particular moment or event?

  • Evkob@lemmy.ca
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    2 years ago

    This is all a very interesting perspective, thanks for sharing! For what it’s worth, I think living your true self is in itself “queer as in fuck you”.

    Also related song suggestion for anyone reading who’s into queer punk: Queer as in Fuck You - Dog Park Dissidents

    • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 years ago

      Living your true self is the most powerful thing you can do. But for me, my true self apparently needs to be visibly queer. I felt like I was losing myself when that wasn’t the case.

      In my case, the “fuck you” part is in being able to give a shit eating grin to people who are uncomfortable with my existence, as opposed to those people just assuming I’m one of them. I want them to know that I am not :)