Evkob (they/them)

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Cake day: June 5th, 2023

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  • I relate really hard to this comment. My mother, for all her faults, truly seems to believe the best in people, which I do find admirable. Shortly before retirement, she worked a few retail jobs, where she thrived and loved getting the grumpy clients. She said trying to make them smile was always her favourite mini-game at work.

    As much as I hate most people, that mentality has translated into my work ethic as a customer service employee. You never know what someone is going through, and unless you actively make the staff feel unsafe I will try my best to make your day a bit nicer.









  • The Canadian flag is not a “bog standard three stripes” design. It even introduced a new vexillological term; the Canadian pale.

    I don’t understand why you think the maple leaf, a symbol which has been associated with Canada ever since there was a “Canada” to speak of, is “cringe”.

    The Canadian flag is a vexillological masterpiece and I will die on this hill. I wouldn’t bother dying for my country, but I would for its flag. It’s instantly recognizable, simple yet symbolic, and honestly such a massive glow-up from the previous Red Ensign flag.

    You want to see a cringe flag? Look at this atrocity:

    Click here if you don't care about your eyes

    A shitty flag, the Canadian Red Ensign


  • I used to be pretty active in my city and province’s subreddits, and while there were occasional assholes everyone was mostly reasonable.

    I went and checked my city’s subreddit the other day and it has gotten substantially worse since I’ve left Reddit two years ago. It’s all people posting the same trashy racist rhetoric about immigrants. We used to post screenshots of those same takes from the local FB groups to make fun of those idiots, now the subreddit is those idiots.


  • I always enjoy talking to the elder gays, even though sometimes the men will be kinda inappropriate.

    My favourite was this one old guy who came up to me while I was on a smoke break at work and immediately asked me “you’re trans, aren’t you?”

    When I apprehensively said yes, he revealed he had transitioned in the late '80s! We had a nice little chat while I finished my smoke, he was really sweet and super proud of how comfortable the new generation of queers was being themselves. I definitely went into the bathroom to have a little happy cry afterwards.



  • I’m sorry your local drag community sucks so much. There’s definitely drama in our local scene, but on the whole it’s very much a trans-inclusive space here. A lot of the big names in my area are trans themselves.

    I hope you get to find that someday, because a good drag scene is welcoming, and it’s a great way to express complex feelings about gender and deconstructing societal norms and expectations. But when it’s done badly, it can be really bad.




  • Your comments would have been fine in answer to someone seeking support for porn addiction/dependency, but it’s completely irrelevant in a tech community on a post about people circumventing silly restrictions.

    You clearly came into the thread with a specific agenda which was irrelevant to the thread’s topic, and spammed the same comment in multiple replies. What did you expect? I don’t even entirely disagree with your opinions about pornography but do you seriously think this was the best way to communicate your point?