• pinkdrunkenelephants
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    1 year ago

    Either way you can produce a strong argument they’re influencing when you cry so by your logic they’ve already won. Your lost agency has jack shit to do with whether you cry or not so let them cry.

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      1 year ago

      Your lost agency has jack shit to do with whether you cry or not so let them cry.

      It’s not about whether you cry or not but rather about when you cry. It’s also not so much about if you win or lose in a black and white sense but how much more are you prepared to lose.

      Anyways, this is a matter of perspective and probably not the right sub to discuss this lol.