• Cylusthevirus@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    Yes, I suppose if you ignore every single bit of the last few hundred years worth of context, it would be hard to understand why people might be ok with this, but not necessarily the reverse.

    Fortunately that context is available to you, so what I have trouble understanding is why you’re not accounting for that. Maybe you could elaborate, or perhaps do some perspective taking on why historically oppressed groups have certain sensitivities that privileged groups do not have. You might even come to realize that treating everyone exactly the same after not doing so for a very long time doesn’t come across as terribly fair. Because, you know, it isn’t.

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        1 year ago

        Would you say the same if we were talking about religions or races instead of genders?

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        1 year ago

        So now the question is whether it is okay for us to show women doing something to men in cases where we are not comfortable with men doing that same action to women.

        I think what you actually are aiming at is the question: Why is this meme upvoted? And why do you think the meme with reversed genders wouldn’t be?

        I bet you want to tell us.