And no he does not masturbate to the image. I am pondering of either seeing a psych doc with him or his PCP. Apparently this has been going on for the past 2 years.
“Lemmy, my brother, for the last two years, has just said he’s tired and wandered off for EVERY single family porn might. He’s not even masturbating with us. What do you think is wrong?”
As others already alluded to, sounds like a blood pressure thing. Either way, he should get himself checked out soon, this does not sound normal
Possibilities:
- Troll post
- Trauma response
- Faking it
- Strict religious or other upbringing that makes it feel evil/stressful
- Severe POIS (post orgasmic illness syndrome, but can also occur when getting aroused)
- POTS or similar cardiovascular health condition
- Other psychological condition
There could be a blood pressure issue going on when he is aroused. He should see his PCP about it and go from there.
This is the correct response. See a PCP.
And then… Immediately report back what’s actually happening because this is quite interesting.
What the actual fuck is a PCP?
Primary Care Provider
Your regular “check up” doctor
A whole gallon of PCP.
Huh. It comes in gallons?
Check OP post history
Other responses so far are valid but as someone who has known people with this kinda reaction to sex stuff, they had cptsd from sexual assault as a child. It triggered them. Things from childhood can pop up later in life. Or maybe a recent experience could have.
Or it could just be blood pressure. Idk. But wanted to give you my experience and knowledge.
No idea why this is downvoted. Seems like a helpful suggestion
I’d be inclined to agree with what folks have said here. But the potential trauma and potential blood pressure issue.
Only chiming in to say a friend of mine, who has a slew of other medical issues, has passed out from erections and sexual arousal. And once passed out from bottoming, so it’s not some wild strange theory. It does happen.
Vasovagal syncope ? It can be triggered with extreme emotions.
This was my immediate thought.
*this is not a medical diagnosis and the person posting this recommends seeking the opinion of a medical professional.
Maybe he just doesn’t want to watch porn with his brother?
“Hey bro,let’s watch porn together. Nothing wrong with that, right. Wait, where are you going? There must be something medically wrong with him. I should ask Lemmy.”
Average Lemmy moment
Not really that but as a sister we watched something and there was a sex scene and he was passed out even before it finishedl
It is possible he is experiencing sensory overload and have undiagnosed narcolepsy.
I take it he would like to watch porn but can’t? Then yes, that’s a problem and he should see his primary care doc first. It’s a quality of life issue.
He might be a Baptist
Congenital Baptistism. Terrible fate. There’s hope for a cure with Crispr, though
Like your username! Are you Buddhist?
Hey, thanks!
Sort of a hodgepodge. Hinduism (advaita Vedanta, kashmiri Shaivism mainly), some Buddhism as well, and an Episcopalian. Haha. Mostly I’m a nondualist who really, really likes philosophy. I picked the username years ago when I was just beginning to explore eastern philosophy, and it was a pun/play on the term bi curious.
