• SpaghettiYeti@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    The worst part is your job thinking you can work infinite hours because you dont have a kid. Its a fucked up tax.

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      11 months ago

      I have a sick (but not dying) sister with 3 kids. As far as work are concerned, I visit every fortnight to help out and rush up to see them every time there’s an emergency or they need childcare.

      I haven’t seen the sister in four years and only see my nephews twice a year when they visit Grandma but work don’t need to know that

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      11 months ago

      just lie and tell them you have a kid

      double down, even, and tell them the kid has a debilitating chronic disease that you regularly need to take time off work to bring to appointments and provide support for.

      now you have even more free time

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          11 months ago

          I don’t feel the need to defraud the government and our limited social welfare taxes. I’ll happily tell my employer white lies about family who don’t exist, but never the government.

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        11 months ago

        Lunatic Americans have an honor code, who works more hours-competition to maybe one day perhaps get a promotion…

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        11 months ago

        Americans outside of trades: “Contract”? What’s that? Is that like when my employer makes me sign papers saying I can’t sue them if I get hospitalized because of their negligence?

    • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      11 months ago

      Protip: you don’t owe your employer an explanation for turning down overtime, for refusing to do unpaid work, for refusing to pick up extra shifts, or for not being able to participate in heroics or death marches.