• amio@kbin.social
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    11 months ago

    Yeah, everyone knows it’s so easy being male that literally anything bad that ever happens to one has to be 100% their own fault.

    Not particularly realistic, but people go ahead and “know” it anyway.

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      11 months ago

      When h3h3 wasn’t what it is now, on one of these cases/stories Ethan said something like:

      “I’m sure many white males are watching this with their average to below average life, and ask: Where is my privilege?”

      And yeah there is truth in that…

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        11 months ago

        The problem is people like Ethan (as well as many feminists) dont understand what privilege theory actually is.

        I think its always best to explain it with disabilities first.

        Like you, as an abled body person, have certain advantages in life over someone who has to use a wheelchair. Even if the guy in a wheelchair becomes a multimillionaire tech CEO and you are homeless, you still have that “privilege” over him in that the world is built to suit you much more than it is him as wheelchair access is often an after-thought , you have more potential job opportunities than he does and people consider you “normal” vs the guy in the wheelchair always being associated with his disability.

        You do not automatically live a life of luxury just because you have the “privilege” of an able body, just like with male privilege, or white privilege or any other privilege. It just means you have less obstacles getting in the way of your success.

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          Yes but a lot of people seem to think that if you have less obstacles in your way that means that no one should be concerned about the obstacles that still are in your way.

          Just because life is theoretically more difficult for one class of person does not mean that another class of person cannot be allowed to also experience difficulties.

          People who were not privileged use it as a weapon to hit everyone else over the head, even when it’s inappropriate. Especially when it’s inappropriate.

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            People who were not privileged use it as a weapon to hit everyone else over the head, even when it’s inappropriate. Especially when it’s inappropriate.

            I think it’s important to state that isn’t not people who aren’t privileged in general that do this but a very small minority. And its often people who are actually very privileged that try to leverage the one aspect in which they’re not, that do this.

            Please remember that the nature of the internet means you see the loud and angry people (as well as trolls) what more often than anyone else.