• webghost0101
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    1 year ago

    I dont agree with that sub at all. I am a parent.

    But the question “if i should bring a child in this world” is one i thought long and hard over so i recognize some people why people take such an extreme stance.

    Condemning others for making different choices is something i will never approve on principle. But just cause that sub is particularly toxic doesn’t invalidate otherwise legit cynicism.

    The fact that i worried so much about my child’s future prospects being critical of society and my own means of being a parent is what eventually made me decide that i should, because i realized if your not afraid of becoming a parent then your not ready to become a parent.