• Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee
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    22 hours ago

    It’s the fact they (including the Blahaj admins) demand everyone else use language in the same way they do that rankles with me.

    • AnIndefiniteArticle@sh.itjust.works
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      22 hours ago

      Language should not be dictated by any authoritarian body. We should all be the authors of our own lives and free to choose how to communicate our ideas.

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        22 hours ago

        It’s not language being dictated, but it’s usage, and I understand that aspect of it.

        I mean, besides the obvious “you shouldn’t use hate speech,” if someone tells me that their pronouns are they/them and I ignore that and just keep using she/her, that would be incredibly disrespectful. It’s not about whether it’s grammatically valid or not, it’s the meaning and intent.

        That being said, I think Drag is where I’d draw the line. It’s not that I don’t respect neopronouns, but rather that I think Drag is an insincere troll. Not to mention that the whole purpose behind neopronouns is to work around the gendered nature of standard third-person pronouns, but mandating that it also needs to apply to the gender-agnostic first- and second-person pronouns makes no sense.