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    Time for the other Horse race now - the ones our US friends are having “Today” (It’s midnight in New York). It’ll be mostly tomorrow for us, though.

    Curiously, the betting odds appear to favour the previous President having a return. I don’t know how much faith to put into that, but if any bunch of people are dumb enough to put that bloke back in charge of the country, they’ll be found in the USA.

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      It’s unreal that people are boarding up windows in anticipation for violence to break out.

      I’d really hate to be living in the US under those conditions. They really take politics to another level.

      Also pray we don’t get nut jobs here trying to replicate the actions of those Overseas.

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        Kind of sad that Sri Lanka, known hotbed of violence and terrorism and in which incensed citizens picturesquely invaded the presidential compound to take selfies, recently had a completely peaceful presidential election with a very different party taking over - one that had links to the violence of the 80s/early 90s no less…

        …but here we are reading of people boarding windows up in the US for a presidential election. How things have changed

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      Nah, the republicans have been ratfucking polls for months, so don’t trust that shit.

      It’s really gonna boil down to “do you really wanna shit on a woman of colour so fucking bad you’d destroy your own country”. and yeah this is america so…

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      The real threat of violence either way makes it very worrying. I have vague plans to visit my brother there next July but a lot hinges on how this election goes, and the aftermath…

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        It is worrying… and the polarisation of politics in the US is something we need to actively take steps to avoid happening here.

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    Heading back to melbs today.

    Got a lot done garden-wise over the last few days which is a good feeling. Bit of a rave choon garden Blitz

    Inching ever closer at snails pace to a hands off (ish) summer.

    Just spoke to mum 2 days after her fall. Turns out she hit her head first and didn’t say that. now vision is blurred in her only good eye. I suspect a bit of delayed concussion. Her hubby is a doc so she’s in good hands but history constantly reminds me that that gen is stoic AF.

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    On mental health watch today for mein liebe, nothing serious as long as I keep to the safety plan, remind him to play with the cat (grounding, and Mickey needs the exercise), and stop looking at the other place lol.

    I’ll do some study, play some Brotato, and keep myself centred. Today is a good day for being happy and forgetting about the problems.

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    ratchet-ass mofo knows I'm wearing thin pants

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      Oh, that’s a chomp.

      Hope your liebe is doing ok. Years ago, after some very bad news, my doc told me to have some time outside in nature. I very sceptically laid on a towel in the backyard, which actually seemed to help. Maybe a walk or some time outside might help?

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      It sounds like a dumb suggestion but if you have somewhere to put a hammock it helps. Something about feeling held and the swaying

      It’s a cliche for a reason

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        As springchicken suggested, I’m thinking of convincing him to come outside. Our building has a courtyard with a lil fountain and heaps of plants, and a hammock! So that’s a great idea!

        Also, I can check on the health of the goldfish in the fountain too. They’re a hardy species, but idk how their health is.

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          lol I was suggesting it for you so you could care for yourself as well. But yeah buy another so both get one.

          Maybe go out to check on the plants and fish. Outside is a great help (assuming it’s safe to do :/)

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            😂 I forget about myself heaps haha, so thank you 🙌🏼💜

            He’s had a gout attack, but I reckon a lil hobble downstairs is doable lol. Either way I’ll pop down and check it out now that the weather is so beautiful. The courtyard is on level one, which is actually level 3 lol, so it’s high up and secluded from the general population. The only way to access it is to get through a few sets of fob doors, and I think two level 1(3? Lol) apartments have gates that can open to it. Perfect little area. 💜

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              Seriously don’t forget about yourself because invisible informal care work without your own supports and boundaries can and will fuck you up.

              Ah… yes, physical limitations. At least one of you take a break

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    Goldfish are healthy and happy. Places to hide, fed, and everything is cool.

    Went out and got some iced coffees and cake things from woolies. Went for a walk down the street and back for my tobacco replacement herb mix.

    Very nice day

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    Miss Meow is trying to convince me that public holidays mean she needs 24hr lap provision to be able to relax properly. I am concerned about this plan as it is blocking my access to caffeine.

    Edit: It’s alright, she’s decided she really wants to have a day of progressive sleeping and use all of her beds instead, as long as she has intermittent lap access we should be ok.

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    So I took another dreaded trip out in the day, this time to Bunnings thinking about how much I have to spend with dealing with wasps.

    Fate smiles on me when my next door neighbour called out to me and we get chatting only to find out from him that they’re bees and we should leave them for the moment until we notice it get too out of hand then we’ll get a professional in for it.

    No out of pocket for the moment thank god.

    Also My horsie didn’t place today. 😢

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    Got together all Elder’s school uniforms from the high school he started at (some things he never wore) and whatever text books, scientific calculator and unused stationery etc there was. Bagged it up and took it to a friend’s house (whose son is starting at that school next year 😬) and just said, “here you go!” She knew I was bringing some stuff around but was pleasantly surprised. I looked into selling it but then I’ve got people coming to the house and only wanting some of it and being annoying… I decided I’d rather just give it away to someone who will appreciate it and isn’t a pain in the arse! I also feel sorry for them; they’ve got no family here and they both work really hard and one whole wage goes on rent. Felt good. Now all that’s left is to get the remaining stuff out of his old locker, they can have that too. I’ve contacted the school twice and they were going to contact me back to arrange a time but just never do. Mr P dropped in one day to do it and they didn’t have any spare person to accompany him while doing it, so it couldn’t be done 😒

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    I think Toby’s time to really starting to come to a close… does anyone have any experience with at home services? Had a google but got overwhelmed.

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      Its so tough… My vet came to the house for one of my dogs. They knew her and we had palliated her with them for 18 months so when I called they came. It was okay, as okay as these things can be. We’ve also been to the clinic when the time came for other pets. It’s shit either way. But, and I mean this in the kindest way possible… it’s better to arrange it a day early than a day late.

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        I totally agree there. I’ve seen people drag it out way too long and promised him I’d never do that to him. Would much rather do it at home where he’s comfy.

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      I’m really sorry. I haven’t done this but may consider it when needed… it seems like a lower stress option

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    Well, barely got anywhere with the pantry, but I have a better idea of what’s in there… and packed all my books and listed three things online. My back is aching pretty bad so I think I’m going to pop a Nurofen with dins, call it a night and let myself rest. To be fair I’ve been busy the last three days straight, physically so on two days.

    Gonna read one of the books I dusted off. It was a friend’s, we cut contact over covid and I still kinda miss her but this one’s gonna go to the op shop when I’m done I think.

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        Thank you!! I did a very stupid thing and thought I was doing an exam for the other subject. But I didn’t know absolutely nothing. Hoping I passed, even though this subject is going to drag my WAM down!