• _____@lemm.ee
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    1 month ago

    the issue is that people believe the default party is not a coincidence but some higher order plan, whether religious or spiritual or karmic or whatever

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      1 month ago

      My mom thinks that you should do anything for family.

      Meanwhile, I can cut ties with people like it’s nothing. Once you have to end toxic relationships a few times, it gets really easy. Now I just don’t hang around toxic people lol.

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        1 month ago

        It really sucks because growing up you have no concept of what is toxicity or abuse, you learn from meeting others and going “wow these new people I met never shit on me for no reason”

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          Exactly! Once you can see it and know that you deserve to be treated well, cutting out the toxicity is so nice