• FuglyDuck@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    You know. You’re missing the point?

    Your methods do not work. You know that. You can see the results.

    All people are going to remember from your interactions is that you were a preachy jerk.

    And it’s yet another interaction that reinforces the image that all vegans are preachy jerks- even if it is far from the truth.

    You are literally hurting your cause.

    • Sunshine (she/her)@lemmy.caOP
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      3 months ago

      More people are going vegan than ever before as 88 million have went vegan. The chauvinists said the same thing towards those “crazy” feminists and abolitionists.

      I will not be kind to those who are animal abusers. Stop it and be better. You did not address the examples of animal abuse I mentioned as that is permissible in your eyes.

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        3 months ago

        I don’t need to address anything.

        You don’t need to either. That’s your choice.

        But once again- you do seem to want to persuade people…. And I’m trying to help you do that. You do you, but you’re not going to get very far.

        • Sunshine (she/her)@lemmy.caOP
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          3 months ago

          You’re not vegan so you’re not the best person to ask for persuasion, I would rather ask Ed Winters or Melanie Joy for advice.

          Though its good you’re somewhat supportive ;)

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        3 months ago

        My comrade in veganism: this is not the way. Kindness is the only way your message will be heard. If Daryl Davis (a black man) can convince hundreds of KKK members to leave the organization by befriending them and forging relationships, sometimes over years, then you can tone it down and be kind to someone who doesn’t share your views and wants to eat a cheeseburger. Doesnt make them “right”, but your approach just makes you insufferable in the eyes of people you don’t agree with, which is almost everyone. Trust me, I’ve been doing it for decades and you are not setting a good example for the chill vegans out there. Calm down, love people regardless of their differences, there is enough division in the world. Do not turn your ethics into religious fundamentalism. You can control your behavior and you can be a good ambassador. In short: don’t be a smug asshole that thinks they are superior for any reason.