• ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works
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    2 years ago

    If Tourette’s involves a compulsion to say socially inappropriate things, what happens if those things don’t turn out to be socially inappropriate? Does the compulsion switch to something else? Does it fade?

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      That’s not what tourettes is actually. It can take a number of forms.

      I went on a date with a guy that had it and he just frequently vocalized small grunts. I have to admit it was a little uncomfortable at first but I got used to it while we watched a movie in bed. I didn’t meet him again though, because the sex was very bad, but I think that’s unrelated to tourettes.

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        Do you mean like intrusive thoughts that we normally stop, or is there a different part that we’re not even aware of?

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          Both I believe. There are things that come up in your brain that get tossed before “you” are even aware of it.
          Like, when you see a person all the different words you know of that could be associated with them get “activated” as your brain comprehends the details.
          You see a man wearing jeans and you know he’s wearing jeans, but you don’t think to yourself “blue pants”. It’s not relevant.

    • The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.worldOPM
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      I believe it just gravitates toward whatever you know you shouldn’t say in the moment. Sort of like a “call of the void” for social situations that manifests as a tic that you can only avoid for so long.