• wonderingwanderer
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    18 小时前

    Okay well it happens all the time. Like men talking about something that effects them as men and someone goes “why do you hate women?!?”

    I agree that that’s pancakes and waffles, but only calling it out when it’s men commenting on a post about women is a double-standard. Very likely the men who pointed that out on this post were doing so as a result of and/or to call out that double-standard.

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      18 小时前

      Can you show me an example of this happening in this community?

      Because we have men actually asking “what about men?” in this thread right here. It’s not theoretical, it actually happened.

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        18 小时前

        It’s not theoretical either. If everything that happens becomes merely “theoretical” as soon as the thread moves out of the all-feed, then we’ll be stuck in an endless loop like Groundhog’s Day.

        I’m telling you it happens all the time and you’d have to be selectively ignoring it not to see it.

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          18 小时前

          If it happens all the time in this community, you would be able to share something with me. I’m honestly curious because I haven’t seen that kind of reaction here.