I’m not emotionally invested at all, that sounds like something you’re imagining.

You want to claim im doing ad-hominem

All I pointed out was that it’s an ad hominem to attack an innocuous action just because the person is a jerk. That’s literally what an ad hominem is. I wasn’t “claiming” anything, just stating the simple truth.

while calling me MAGA for not reading into these texts the same way you have.

I didn’t “call” you maga, I said you’re using the same disingenuous and irrational style of argumentation that they use.

Trust me it is not that serious.

If it’s not that serious then why are you and Velma making a big deal out of the fact that he took an hour to respond? I’d agree that it’s not that serious, but you’re the one trying to make a mountain out of that molehill, so don’t DARVO me about taking it too seriously.

Women have been generally conditioned into being placative because it keeps them from getting hurt.

Yeah, isn’t that what I just said? That kinda contradicts your previous point that it’s somehow his fault that she feels the need to be placating.

At least maintain consistency in your arguments instead of contradicting yourself whenever it seems convenient for you.