• Nollij
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    9 个月前

    Counterpoint: birthdays (and cake days, and many anniversaries) are a pointless celebration.

    Payton Oswalt had a pretty good plan on that: https://youtu.be/sbJs-Ul1QFo

    • QuizzaciousOtter@lemm.ee
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      9 个月前

      How are they pointless if they bring people joy? I know there are exceptions but I’m pretty sure people generally really like birthdays…

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            9 个月前

            Well, maybe he means that you should celebrate actual achievements instead of dates that just happen every year. The YouTube video he linked didn’t tell to completely stop celebrating birthdays. Just limit it to a total of 20 birthdays for most people (you get more if you live really old).

            • Flax@feddit.ukBanned from community
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              9 个月前

              What if you’re working the same 9-5 job five days a week and it pays you well and you’re happy yet you don’t have any new achievements

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                9 个月前

                Then you can get drunk without celebrating I guess

        • Nythos@sh.itjust.works
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          9 个月前

          Have we really gotten to the point of being demeaning to people simply because they celebrate their fucking birthday?

    • Flax@feddit.ukBanned from community
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      9 个月前

      NO HAPPINESS ALLOWED! GET BACK TO THE COAL MINES!