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Cake day: November 25th, 2025

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  • I tried gnome once at the start of my Linux adventures and I couldn’t figure out how to do most stuff as it seems really counter intuitive to me. I tried extensions to fix it and they just didn’t work or broke and trying to install the extensions was a problem for me too. Idk it’s just seems broken to me in a lot of ways

    Then I tried another distro with basic life and it was easy and I didnt need to install anything extra because it was already all there.

    Also why the fuck does gnome and Ubuntu have a app drawer take up the whole fucking screen. I’m on a computer not a tablet or phone. I just need a start menu like kde has. Its simple small and easily accessible when other apps are open


  • Gender affirming care is important (for cis or trans people) but it won’t cure mental things like that. Many many trans people still think there hideous even with highest amounts of estrogen and zero testosterone. If it’s low in your system that can help you physically but not mentally. In my own honest opinion of someone who has seen a therapist (or psychotherapist) is to go see one of its that bad. Get one that listens and responses to you.

    Estrogen most likely will not solve that problem. I still feel like you describe after 15 years in estrogen and yet everyone says I don’t look at all like a guy anymore. Don’t blame yourself for societies failures on people who are not “perfect” looking.





  • Bashir was pretty arrogant about it too like he thought that just because they was genetically engineered and just like him he thought they couldn’t be wrong or accidentally do something bad.

    The whole episode felt like it was neurotypical people trying to make a episode about neurodiverse people and failing at it because they didn’t get enough input from the disabled community. (Felt like that. Not saying it was or wasn’t)

    And I’m absolutely sure that neurodivergent people had input and was listened too they could have made a amazing episode about it about accepting people who are different genetically in that way.

    Those 3 where not bad people they didn’t seek evil or Malice they genuinely wanted to help. But instead the show just kinda thrown them under the bus and never talked about them.

    They didn’t talk “normal” they didn’t have “normal” behaviors. So start trek just saw them as broken and unfixable.

    They could have helped the war if they had help with there disabilities and understanding there problems and strengths too.

    But the whole genetic engineering thing and eugenics felt kinda weird throughout most of old star trek. Always felt “off” in a way.

    Eugenics is bad and all. Not debating that. But how they didn’t seem to have little to no neurodiverse people in old trek kinda wasn’t as good in that way.

    But it was made in the 1990s iirc. We know more about it now a days then we did back then.

    Also seeing properly made autistic people in start trek now a days always makes me feel seen and heard.




  • My dog and my cat helps me at most, however do to the fact I’m in Amerikkka and disabled. It’s impossible for me with my circumstances I have to be happy.

    However my animals keep me just above borderline unaliving my self.

    My animals do make me smile every day. Especially my service dog and how quirky and weird she is and does the most stupidest funniest stuff sometimes that I always get a kick out of.

    My cat is the man of the house, constantly yelling, complaining and think he owns the damn place. He doesn’t give a shit about me but absolutely loves my dog, he’s very much a stereotypical man. Which is to me fucking funny because he’s a small ass cat so I can just scoop him up whenever and cuddle with him.

    Overall it’s borderline but I’m still here … At least for now.