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  • Anecdotally, it would seem so.

    I think it depends on the root of the hatred. An awful lot of hatred comes from ignorance, and when people dispell the ignorance, the hatred follows.

    But sometimes the hatred is so fundamental to someone’s lived experiences that even if it’s obviously wrong, it’s absolutely true to them. In those cases, I suspect it would be harder to let go of it.




  • I think it comes down to, are you done?

    Every relationship has rough patches, but there’s a lot to consider: is it a recurring issue, are you both willing to talk it out and change behaviours, is there still the willingness to trust and give the benefit of the doubt, etc.

    Everyone has to make their own decision as to how much energy they’re willing to put into a relationship. If there are just too many incompatible points, and things aren’t getting better, it might be time to call it quits.

    On the other hand, if the love and respect is still there, and you’re still willing to put in the work… it could be good!