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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • “Do things without her asking (make meals, clean)”
    I can’t emphasize this enough.
    When I had a miscarriage my husband took care of everything around the house. Literally everything. For one week I only had to worry about myself. I had 24 hours a day to do wathever I needed in that moment. No cleaning, cooking, feeding the cats, not having to remember any chores that needed to be done. That was the best he could have done and I was so thankful for it.

    After one week i started working again and slowly helping out more and more until thing went back to normal.
    Being able to only worry about myself for a whole week helped so much with my heeling.



  • I stopped using reddit after spez’s AmA. If all of this would have been handled in a more mature and open way, I would probably have moved to the reddit app, complained about it for a while, but kept usind reddit. But after what happened in the last weeks, reddit is no longer something I want to be associated with.
    For lack of a better description, I simply don’t ‘like’ reddit anymore. It’s like a friend who treated you like shit… Sure, you could still go to a party together and have fun, but it’s just not quite the same anymore.

    It’s not so much about what they did, most people understand reddit has to make money at some point. It’s the how that is driving people away imho. At least it is for me.