I’ve never heard of Pattern, but for me what has been the most easy and economical approach has been the Shea Moisture Products. I only wash my hair with shampoo 1-2 times a week so I don’t focus so much on the health benefits on that end. Every other day that I shower I mainly use conditioner on my ends to de-tangle my hair, and none/very little on the scalp to avoid weighing down the curls at the root, and I try not to rinse out too much of the conditioner bc it helps maintain frizz when I style it. Using that shower cap/beanie method with various hair masks has made all the difference. Another one I highly recommend is Joico K-Pak reconstructor deep penetrating treatment. This one won an award it’s so good. The olaplex line has proprietary technology which is what makes that one so good. I hope you find something that works for you! I’d love to hear how it goes if you do end up finding your thing!
Cute outfit! 💕