SharkEatingBreakfast

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Cake day: September 2nd, 2023

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  • My family keeps asking me to make the green bean casserole for Thanksgiving again this year because I apparently made “the best” casserole ever last time.

    I… I kinda winged it and combined a bunch of green bean casserole recipes I found online to compensate for the fact that I didn’t have all the ingredients for each recipe.

    Have 0 idea how to remake it now! 🙃










  • To be fair, this was a while ago! Plus it was during C×vid, so I’m sure things were much more difficult logistically around that time. If you’re wary, I’d suggest you give them a chance! Don’t think they operate that way as a current standard.

    And, yes, they were dubias. I live in the far far north, and they do not survive the cold here. Heck, they barely can survive my house if they breech containment!




  • This happened to me with this same company, but with 500 cockroaches!!!

    And it didn’t actually happen to me… it actually happened to my post office. But my local hub called to let me know that my package had been damaged in transit and was undeliverable. I was like “UH OH”

    They gave me the WORST treatment every time I went in there to mail stuff out after that. Stopped going there for nearly 2 years until they stopped being mad. LOL Went across town to avoid them.

    I know it wasn’t my fault and it was the company, but I understand why they were pissed.

    From then on, I messaged insect sellers to request they securely bag / contain the bugs so I won’t be blacklisted from my local hub. They typically get a kick out of the story and my bugs have been securely packaged ever since!


  • SharkEatingBreakfasttoAsk Men@lemmy.worldWhen is it reasonable to say no to sex ?
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    Even if a change in circumstances is temporary, does a wife have an obligation to always meet her husband’s needs? What’s actually a “good” reason to say no?

    I’m so sorry to barge in here and answer, because I’m not a man. However, I wanted to chime in because I was once in your position for far too long.

    Sex should be a mutual thing between partners. You are not EVER “”“obligated”“” to give it, nor do you “”“owe it”“” to your partner. Sex is NOT a transactional thing. And if you are being told that is it, you are being lied to. Currently, it seems that it is being weaponized to force you to ignore your needs, simply to fulfill the physical lust of someone else, robbing you of much-needed recovery.

    He is not entitled to you. You do not owe him. You can say “no” for ANY reason and it is absolutely valid.








  • SharkEatingBreakfastto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    4 days ago

    I’m not getting paid to look attractive to other people. I get shit on all the time for the way I choose to look. Comfy cozy clothes make me happy & I don’t want to put effort into doing my hair. So what?

    “Don’t you want people to find you attractive?” Lol no I don’t want people irl to even acknowledge me. I want to drift through society like a wandering spirit.