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Cake day: April 1st, 2026

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  • Thank you for sharing, you have come to the right place! Skirts and dresses definitely feel more exposed than pants for sure. You are so used to that extra fabric right up against your back side. Now the air can freely flow, it almost feels like you’re naked. There is definitely a learning curve to it, and if you like the way you look you’ll get used to it.

    I felt the same way when I donned my first skirt, but as soon as I looked in the mirror I stopped caring. Now it’s all about not accidentally flashing people (just my wife for now but still). Learning to fold my skirt underneath me when sitting was step one. Learning to bend at the knees, legs together, back straight was step two. If there’s a step three, I haven’t learned it yet.

    That being said, you don’t have to wear skirts or dresses to be feminine. There are tons of options, what’s right for me doesn’t have to be what’s right for you. My wife is a horse girl, all jeans or sweats, tee shirts, hoodies. Doesn’t like jewelry, doesn’t do makeup. I’m the girly one in our relationship and that’s fine. Do what makes you happy, your happiness is all that matters.

    Feel free to drop by anytime. We will be here, excited to hear how things are going and to answer any questions you may have!














  • Nissa@lemmy.worldOPtoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneBigender
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    5 days ago

    She is very understanding and supportive and has done her best to accommodate my needs and express her feelings. We have agreed on girlmoding 2 to 3 times a week unless I need to be Nissa or the wife needs me to be Lewis. Along with open and honest communication we are doing our best. This is obviously still very new but luckily we love each other enough to work through anything and try to be a better person for the other everyday.