Such a cool link. Thanks for sharing.
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KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Question about UK remote job interview dress attire.8·7 months agoOh, I remember answering you in another thread about moving to the UK! I hope it works out for you and your family. Best of luck 😊
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Signaling that you are a man that can provide for a familyEnglish281·7 months agoHow to class it up:
- Display tech proficiency
- Donate to her favorite charity
- Share ill-gotten nuggets
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto Traditional Art@lemmy.world•Self Portrait - by Ian CumberlandEnglish51·7 months agoI love it
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•People that work at restaurants, what was your worst experience with a customer?177·7 months agoPerhaps jerks?
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto science@lemmy.world•Memory is stored in cells throughout the body, not just the brainEnglish16·8 months ago“The Body Keeps the Score”
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•International Criminal Court issues arrest warrants for Netanyahu and Hamas officialsEnglish31·8 months agoHaredis are innocent? Their vision for a the state of Israel is revanchist and purely Jewish. Their votes are squarely in a right-wing corner.
Bart’s got this.
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Half of Young Norwegians Say Online Piracy Is an Acceptable Way to Save Money * TorrentFreakEnglish15·8 months agoOnly half?
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•Kamala Harris won politicaly engaged voters, but lost voters who don't follow politics.2·8 months agoOk, what does that actually mean when you apply the sound bite to reality? What are your specific expectations for “the people” as individuals?
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto Progressive Politics@lemmy.world•Voting Against Genocide – How Gaza Defeated the Democratic Establishment155·8 months agoMy absolute pleasure o7
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto Progressive Politics@lemmy.world•Voting Against Genocide – How Gaza Defeated the Democratic Establishment2911·8 months agoI am. Unapologetically.
Much more dubious is Buddhism’s claim that perceiving yourself as in some sense unreal will make you happier and more compassionate. Ideally, as the British psychologist and Zen practitioner Susan Blackmore writes in The Meme Machine, when you embrace your essential selflessness, “guilt, shame, embarrassment, self-doubt, and fear of failure ebb away and you become, contrary to expectation, a better neighbor.” But most people are distressed by sensations of unreality, which are quite common and can be induced by drugs, fatigue, trauma, and mental illness as well as by meditation.
I find this particular angle of criticism trite.
Are most people distressed by sensations of unreality? Maybe. Some, for sure. But so what?
Isn’t the sensation of distress a sensation to move through by perceiving its “unrealness”? Seems to me the discomfort is, in many cases, the finger pointing at the moon. Be with it and the opportunity to disappear your suffering about it arises.
If you disappear enough suffering, what’s left? Something new… new opportunities for being… opportunities for compassion and wisdom… and those opportunities would almost certainly have never arisen inside the prison of sensation escapism.
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do zoos do with dead animals?21·8 months agoYou don’t need to be angry to speak and act.
I mean, maybe you feel like you do, but to anyone else reading this—that’s a trap.
Anger is poison.
Find a way to be happy and live well and stand for what matters to you.
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do zoos do with dead animals?1·8 months agoFascinating! Thanks for sharing.
KaTaRaNaGa@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do zoos do with dead animals?94·8 months ago“If you don’t apply your morals consistently, don’t bother applying them at all”…?
Human beings are not rational actors. It’s a recipe for burnout and depression to walk around expecting them to be.
For anybody feeling the way parent commenter feels, do yourself a favor and let it go. We’re human beings. What we are is what we are.
Have you ever worked in corporate?
You might really enjoy “The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly.”