Thehuone in Helsinki is another good one which I am sure you are aware of (they also have a webshop). They have some good quality Jasmin tea which I always buy when I cross that. These theas are from The Ounce no? (Based on the bags and the handwriting)

It’s pronounced as “haalari” but close enough

I actually started wearing more “outrageous” make-up looks in my 30s eg strong eyeliners, eye shadows etc on a normal day and not for anything specific reason. I think wearing “weird” make-up is on the other end of the same spectrum and as valid as not wanting to wear anything at all; in the mainstream culture of how a general woman should be (in western culture at least), wearing too much or too little make-up is sadly wrong. I am happy you have found the way that you feel the most comfortable to be yourself :)

Sasha