“Thanks for trying to help, but the same inputs lead to different areas to light up in our brains. It’s not an issue with missing empathy. You just work on a different operating system than me, and telling me how I shall execute that “.exe” properly while all my brain-programms work with “.asd” just isn’t helping.”
(and yes, that is in some details not correct, but never did an ND nitpick about that. I say it in another language, tho xD)
Only when they help poorly. Which is often.
Then I’m frustrated since it’s impolite for me to complain about them helping out.
Sometimes, it helps to say:
“Thanks for trying to help, but the same inputs lead to different areas to light up in our brains. It’s not an issue with missing empathy. You just work on a different operating system than me, and telling me how I shall execute that “.exe” properly while all my brain-programms work with “.asd” just isn’t helping.”
(and yes, that is in some details not correct, but never did an ND nitpick about that. I say it in another language, tho xD)