From what I understand, every autistic individual is unique and different from one another, right?
We probably all have different traits from each other anyway, so it might make sense to learn more about each other in order to get along.
What are your own thoughts about this matter?
When I’ve met up with other autists irl, we mostly spent the whole time talking about our special interests and how weird the NTs are. I think it just makes intuitive sense to most of us to define our community by the stuff we all have in common.