What did you find harder, or perhaps ‘a bigger shock to the system’. Going from zero kids to one, or going from one to two, two to three.

Sorry for the word-salad. I’d have written a shorter post, but I don’t have the time.

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    1 year ago

    It sounds like the adjustment is a bit rough for you at the moment if you feel like 2 sentences became too long. Don’t be so hard on yourself mate.

    Becoming a dad is a shock to the system but one gets easier. I think more than one is relentless, there’s just no break ever. And they act like force multipliers, they drive each other mad and amp up the intensity where 2 is more like 2.6.