Hey friends ❤️

Bit of an off topic question, but could use some help from my sisters.

Coming up is the first Valentine’s day that my wife and I have decided to celebrate. It’s also the first one since I cracked my egg.

I’m weirdly at a loss for how to celebrate and what gifts to get my wife. Specifically, I would love to find a gift or make a meaningful memory for her as a thank you for her devotion and love for me. Especially after coming out and being my authentic self.

Does anyone have any ideas? Best I have thought of is a set of matching jewelry or maybe little love notes hidden around the house about why I love her.

Not really sure

  • Elise@beehaw.org
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    6 months ago

    Maybe it’s possible to get a bouquet that includes flowers that butterflies love. Then write something heartfetlt in the card.

    Maybe you can take her to some place that’s special to you.

    • oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      5 months ago

      I’ve learned that flowers give my wife anxiety because she desperately tries to keep them alive (regardless if they’re planted or cut) and gets sad when they inevitably die 😬

      But maybe I could incorporate a little caterpillar life cycle drawing thing in my love notes I hide around the house that end in a photo of two butterflies together or something 🤔