We’re autistic, and one of the characteristics of being autistic is that we feel things deeply. On the positive side, when we are happy, we feel immense joy compared to others. On the negative side, we feel painful emotions more strongly than others as well. Because of this, many of us have been invalidated, insulted, or pushed away when all we were wanting was to share what we were going through and get support. Maybe even a really tight hug and someone telling us that it makes sense that we feel that way.

While we can’t give hugs, we can help each other by sharing our pain and having others help us through it. So here is that post. What’s bothering you? Why? Tell us.

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  • Retro_Unlimited@infosec.pubEnglish
    9·
    11 months ago

    Virtual Hugs to all.

    My story is too long to share, abusive aunt/uncle and soon to be homeless, lost my mom recently. It’s been tough.

      • Retro_unlimited@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        11 months ago

        Thanks for the positive wishes. The plan is to live in my car and travel. Eventually finding raw land to call home.

    • BOMBS@lemmy.worldOPMEnglish
      2·
      11 months ago

      lost my mom recently

      My dad was possibly top 1% of assholes, and I still felt a new pain I didn’t know existed when he died. I can’t imagine what you’re going through.