I know this. I’d be like, “oh shit a smalltalker …”
What works for me is to start talking about what hapened to me. Similar to what @branchial@feddit.de suggests in this thread. That also gives the other an immediate choice if they want to engage so deeply with you. But you might also expose yourself too much.
Maybe it’s easier for you to tell what you do instead of what you are (or like, or think, or feel …)?
Yes, good point, but I still wish people asked less ambiguous and vague questions. I don’t know, my mind just goes blank for a moment there.
I know this. I’d be like, “oh shit a smalltalker …”
What works for me is to start talking about what hapened to me. Similar to what @branchial@feddit.de suggests in this thread. That also gives the other an immediate choice if they want to engage so deeply with you. But you might also expose yourself too much.