When I make a new friend online and we hang out a lot in a short space of time, I find myself hyperfocusing on wanting to interact with them. I try my best to hold myself back to what would be an acceptable level. It gets to a point where I feel like almost nothing else matters but their next response.

Does anyone else have this? If so, is there a coping technique I can do to reduce it or make it more bearable?

  • 1984@lemmy.today
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    8 months ago

    No. Fuck no.

    Stop it.

    Coping technique… I would start with writing down what you are feeling when you are waiting for a response. Everything you are thinking.

    And then look at that and share it with people you trust. It’s a good start.

    • SolivineOP
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      8 months ago

      I will try this and see how it goes