When I make a new friend online and we hang out a lot in a short space of time, I find myself hyperfocusing on wanting to interact with them. I try my best to hold myself back to what would be an acceptable level. It gets to a point where I feel like almost nothing else matters but their next response.

Does anyone else have this? If so, is there a coping technique I can do to reduce it or make it more bearable?

      • Kyrgizion@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Sure, but there’s not all that much to say. I’m a shut-in and I used to have online friends to play with, but over the years every single one disappeared. Nothing I didn’t do to myself. No great drama involved whatsoever.

        • SolivineOP
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          1 year ago

          That’s a shame, are you not able to find more? Public servers?

        • BOMBS@lemmy.worldM
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          1 year ago

          You can join our chat that’s linked in the side bar or pinned to the top of the community.