Something I’ve always wondered is what kind of women were in the lives of incel men when they were young. Did they have a bad relationship with their mother? Did they lack sisters or other female family members? Or is their family situation irrelevant? Maybe some particular situation in their early years caused them to develop a complex around women?
I see, I did hear from multiple places (including from girls ofc) that appearance is the most important though.
Maybe I live in a place where appearance is nearly everything, or something.