iotop maybe?

Iotop, lsof

They won’t do exactly what you want but will get you partway there

For read/write ops or disk usage over time, I would usually use a monitoring system like Prometheus and Grafana.

When you start talking about what specific files are accessed and when, that’s usually up to an intrusion detection system (or IDS). I don’t have good recommendations for that unfortunately.

inotify-tools:

inotifywait -r -m desired/directory

Something like iotop -Pao (real-time) or iotop -obd (batch) ought to do the job. I don’t know if it includes writes to non-physical devices like tmpfs.

Some other commands you might find interesting: iosnoop, fatrace, pidstat, blktrace.