with all the choices I have, I don’t really know what to choose, there is Matrix, Signal, Briar, Jami, and alot of other privacy focused messenger app that I haven’t even heard of.
need to discuss things with people on the internet, mostly people who already knows privacy stuff.
I need to choose one that’s the most popular one to avoid having people making accounts, what’s the most commonly used (private) messenger app?
XMPP is easiest option to run a server and the more secure. There’s many clients, Dino, Gajim, Conversations, Profanity, etc.