cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21043756
my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.
she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?
when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.
she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.
she talks about dirty stuff w guys and has many photos of them :(
she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.
and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”
“Don’t worry about it 😅”
“I can’t say”
Etc.
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Yeah that can’t last
the only good advice here is to let her go and focus on yourself, and don’t take this behavior from your future partners. she’s clearly still figuring herself out and may be too nervous to tell you she doesn’t want to be with you anymore. i know it sucks to hear this, but at your age this relationship will not statistically last.
prioritize your mental health and your happiness.
Wait until you are an adult. 15 year olds are still children who will think of relationships like children.
