• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Damn, looks like I should have taken all those blowjobs back when I was a bouncer. I guess not doing so is why I like wearing my wife’s panties so much

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        23 hours ago

        Many a time.

        Now, it helps to understand that I bounced at strip clubs and gay bars/clubs.

        At the one gay club I worked most at, I got offered head almost every night I worked. Being offered ass was a thing too, if not so often. The leather and cowboy gay bar wasn’t as common because most of the guys that would be into someone with my looks were looking for guys that dressed the style, but I’d get propositioned often enough to make me feel really positive about my looks.

        At the strip clubs, it wasn’t as common. That was almost always from the ladies working when it did happen, and it was usually offered to get me to ignore them doing something they weren’t supposed to do, like meth. So, not quite the nice offer the gay and bi guys, or bi women would make at the gay spots. Tbh though, at the gay places, I can count on one hand how many women offered, and I can’t even guess how many gents.

        But, there were a few of the ladies at the strip clubs that offered because I did my job and kept them safe. Which was nice of them, and I always appreciated the offer, but it would have been unethical, so even if I didn’t have a rule about not getting involved at work, I’d have turned it down because of the reasoning. Why would I want my dick sucked just for doing my job? It just seemed so skeevy to me. Not that I wasn’t tempted. And gods know I damn near accepted a few times, but I would have regretted it.

        But it was a really nice thing to experience, especially with the guys. I’m hetero, but it still felt nice back then to have really cute dudes interested. I eventually got to the point that my sense of self worth wasn’t tied to other’s approval of my appearance, but at the time it still mattered to me that I could interest attractive people.

        There was this one kid, just barely old enough to get in the door, that offered every time I was working. Which, I say kid, but at that point, I was only two years older than him. But he always seemed younger, even though I’d seen his ID plenty of times. He would call me big man, and say I ought to go home with him when the night was over. “Hey, big man, you gonna finally come home with me? You ain’t gotta fuck me, I’ll cut off the lights and go down on you.” It started off serious, he was into bears, but it turned into a running joke between us. Really nice guy, ended up married to a guy he met at that club, one of the drag performers.

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          22 hours ago

          Thank you for sharing a slice of your life kind stranger. You seem really nice, I’d give you a bj too but would never have the nerve to offer it to the bouncer of a place I want to frequent 😅 I’m sure not all of them would take it that kindly.