• thisguy1092@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    And sorry because I still would address as ma’am or ms.

    But still in my head you are a man. You were born with a penis. Take the pills away and what happens?

    • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      5 hours ago

      I highly doubt you would agree that I’m a man if we met. Even if you could tell I was trans id still be willing to bet you wouldn’t be able to internally conceive of me as a man. I am very conventionally feminine and dress and present myself in a way that is very in line with how other women my age dress and present.

      I have had reassignment surgery, so nothing would happen if the pills were taken away. My body does not produce any more testosterone than a cisgender woman’s does. Even if I hadnt had reassignment surgery, biology still isn’t how we determine gender. My gender wouldn’t change in the absence of medication.

        • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          5 hours ago

          I can’t tell what you’re responding to here. Are you saying you know how I look? I never said I was pretty, nor did I say that you definitely wouldn’t be able to tell i was trans. I said that actually speaking with and interacting with me I feel you’d have a hard time conceiving of me as a man. I do not fall in line with western masculinity in really any way. I’m also very confident in my identity. You calling me a man doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable, just disrespected.