• isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de
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    21 hours ago

    after many years of depression, I have just given up on dating, it’s not fun, it’s not rewarding (for me) and my hobbies keep me happy and fulfilled enough. If something wants to happen, I’m ready to welcome it, if not, who cares

    • Phoenixz@lemmy.ca
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      20 hours ago

      I’m sorry to hear you’ve had difficulty finding someone. If your hobbies keep you happy and fulfilled, just make sure those hobbies don’t keep you home alone. Go to gatherings of other hobby enthusiasts, good chance that there you’ll find someone that is your perfect fit

      • lud@lemm.ee
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        18 hours ago

        If those hobbies keep them happy does it really matter?

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          6 hours ago

          Oh that’s fine, it’s just that everyone wants human interaction, including op. You won’t ever get any interaction if you never meet people

        • Rekorse@sh.itjust.works
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          16 hours ago

          Human connection is extremely important. You could make due without it (probably not completely though) but theres an implication it would be better if one could be successfully social.