• mojofrododojo@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    parents trying to keep the home livable and keep kids on schedule were probably dealing with their own issues; where do you think yours came from?

    I don’t say that in a mean way, I simply assert - having seen both sides of the coin - we’re all going through our own shit.

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      2 months ago

      True. Growing older callouses a person and every year makes it harder to remember how much harder it is to get through shit when you’re young.

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      2 months ago

      This is the explanation my father tried to give me. He had a bad father so he was a bad father. True, he had it tough, but it’s on you as an adult to treat your own children well