• the_yaya@lemmy.worldOPMEnglish
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    3 months ago

    This month’s Ask PHlemmy: What do most people think that is simple to deal with but is actually not?

    • k5nn@lemmy.worldEnglish
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      3 months ago

      for me right now it’s burnout like tangina they still expect you to be a functioning member of society while having to deal with this shit

    • Balon_Josaca@lemm.eeEnglish
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      2 months ago

      Great Question!! I’ve been struggling with this for a long time, especially with someone who constantly doubts their own brain and performance. It’s applying and living everyday, especially with the amount of school work I do, (prestigious city science high school) so I am barely alive the nights and few breaks during the weekdays, and when holidays and weekends come, I rest and slip back to unhealthy habits of AI use (chatbots, haha…) and watching slop videos at YT, so it’s been a struggle, so… it’s just been RAGHHH in my mind.

      • drawerair@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        2 months ago

        I get you. Studying can be hard if you’re aiming for very high grades or the school is giving you a lot of homework or projects. My college life was tiring too. I had many nights with 0 or little 💤, in contrast to my work where I had 1 sleepless night only. (I observed that my face was oilier when I had 0 💤 compared to normal 💤.) Instant ☕ was my pal. In college I was so busy studying that I didn’t have time for organizations.

        Please up your confidence re your intelligence. Humans are learners. It’s OK to take time in digesting a hard topic and to err sometimes. Please think re the future. The path is uphill. You’ll improve. You’ll be smarter.

        • Balon_Josaca@lemm.eeEnglish
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          2 months ago

          Haha, guess you’re right. It’s typical for me to lack confidence in my studies, but I’ve always tried, no matter the result. Just, can’t help after seeing it.