• a_queer_one@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    What the actual fuck.

    CNC as a kink is fine, but to be done healthily requires really solid negotiation skills by all parties. Ain’t no way in hell you can implicitly consent just by going to a party. Even the most edgey edge-player (someone who does risky bdsm play) I know would nope the fuck out of that.

    Fucking awful.